I decided to give match.com a look today just to see what I was missing. I filled out the basic questionnaire just basically wanting to see some search results. Eventually I pressed search and was presented with a screen of 40-49 year old women. I was immediately turned off. But why?
Maybe it’s the fact that they are old. More likely, it’s the fact that they are actual women who want commitment and love. Something I can’t provide. I just don’t see myself in that kind of role. I don’t have it in me. I’m not looking for love in the first place. Sex, yes. Love, no.
What I really need is not Match.com. I need Justfirends.com. Curiously, I typed it into the URL bar of my browser but no such site exists. There’s a server there but it’s just something screwed up.
Oh well. At least I know that online dating is not for me. Whatever.